What has “normal” done for you lately?
drop performance. learn to trust YOur power.
Hi, I’m Fox. I’m a coach and creative arts therapist working with femmes to embrace their inner authority using embodiment, play, and power dynamics. I believe that success is sourced in the heart, not in the empty trophies of status and societal scripts.
It is a new era of relational leadership. Authentic control is found in that wordless gut wisdom, in the pulsing of your cells and muscles and nerves. Your inner knowing takes charge and comes crackling out through your gaze, your breath, your touch. The creative mind and intuitive body fuel the engine of your relationships.
Your strength is measured by who you invite to have a role in your life. Notice the support already around you and you might relax into opportunities without chasing connection.
You’re a creator. Disrupt something! Harnessing your authoritative power serves you far beyond intimate relationships. Your erotic aliveness is your creative force, and it radiates from you in every setting.
Get on a free connection call with me and let’s ignite your vision
What happens in coaching sessions?
I work with you one-on-one over 4 sessions using a playful embodied approach to exploring the dominant style that is truly yours. Together we take a fearless inventory of your experiences with power and build a persona that you feel comfortable, confident, and curious to step into for your connect with partners, clients, friends, and collaborators who energize you.
Guide for a typical session
Arrive. A body-based meditation practice to get in the zone.
Review. Go over assignments from the previous session and any issues that came up.
Set up. Brief overview of the day’s topic based on your overall intentions.
Explore. Creative exercises use artmaking, movement, and visualization to get you out of your head. This can be scary and new to many people, and I’m here to guide you through it.
Reflect. Discussion connecting the exploration to the voice and style of your persona that draws in your ideal clients. Templates for writing content and visual impact belong here.
Contain. review of the session, set assignments for next session, and closing ritual so you can get on with your day.
About Fox
Fox Showers is a nonbinary coach and drama therapist working with femmes to embrace their inner authority using embodiment, play, and power dynamics.
They hold a Master’s in Creative Arts Therapies and run a sex and relationship therapy practice for neurodivergent adults and couples that’s served over 200 clients. Active in kink community in London, Melbourne, Toronto, and Montreal for the past 15 years, they teach on topics including neurodivergence & BDSM relationships, creativity with the senses, and queering power. Their podcast Pleasure Morsels explores paths to vitality and play that go beyond normative social scripts.
Their approach to power play is informed by somatic experiencing, mythology, clown & bouffon, and lineage of gay lesbian leather culture. Chronic pain, ADHD, and gender noncompliance have all shaped their approach to erotic expression as a spectrum of shifting sensation and behaviour. They run a make-out friendly dance party and cabaret collective. They advocate for labour rights and full decriminalization of sex work, using art and performance as tools of activism.
Your move. I’m delighted to meet you.